Monday, February 9, 2009

Best Dating Advice Ever.

I don't know much about this faux famous Julia Allison, nor do I want to, but in her interview with askmen.com, she hits the nail right on the head.

Q8:You've written dating columns -- what's one tried-and-true piece
of dating advice you can pass on to a man?
Confidence, confidence, confidence. If you have it, you don't have to have anything else. If you don't, nothing else matters.Make yourself a challenge, use intermittent reinforcement, always, always, always pay, and never ask her out using an interrogative: "Wednesday, 8 p.m." No question -- just a period. It's unbelievably sexy. Women look for reassurance that you're in control, that you can handle things. Be "that guy," the guy her girl friends wish their boyfriends were more like, the one who's always planning exciting new adventures -- plays, trapeze, a surprise trip to an island or a day roadtripping in a rented van -- not just another restaurant and a choice between the fish or the meat, the white or the red. Be the guy who's up for anything. Be the guy who makes it happen. Be more aggressive in bed than you think you should -- I guarantee she wants it rough, she just doesn't want you to think "she's a slut." Play hard to get for a time, but as things progress, throw in some mush and a little bit of security, too. Make her earn it, but when she does? Give her compliments, DON'T make her ask for them. And when you finally realize you maybe sorta might kinda love her? Tell her. Out loud. When she can hear you. Then tell her when her friends can hear you. Of course, you know you really love her when you tell her when YOUR friends can hear you.

4 comments:

PinkPiddyPaws said...

Yup.. that's really all truth. The problem is... it's coming from a girl and guys don't follow girls advice. ;)

Andie said...

yep. so true!!!

The Ambiguous Blob said...

If all men were closer to this, there would be fewer single guys to choose from. So shhhh... only let a guy see this after you're already dating him :)

Zayin_ said...

Have to agree! However, some guys just don't find it that easy. It's kinda sad...